Category: Spirituality


Lives they lived

Reading through the New York Times Magazine’s tribute to those we lost in 2008, I found myself reflecting on some of the greats of our time and the significant deposits they left on the earth – people like Steve Fossett, Jim Mckay, Tim Russert and many others. One thing that stands out about them all is that they are remembered not for their abilities, connections, money, or fame, even though each of them excelled in every one of these arenas. They were all simply remembered for the impact they had on the lives of others. How they affected us together. The lives they lived receive acclaim today because they shared what they had, used their abilities to strengthen the inabilities of others, spent their money to improve areas where others had lack, and used their connections and fame to bring transformation to their world.  I applaud them all!

 As I think about this year, it does make me think – what will be said of us? Truth is, we too have the same opportunity to impact our world and arguably in a way that may indeed matter even more. You and I can live lives that can also have a profound impact on others, both practically and even on a greater plain, spiritually. It takes place as we discover our purpose in God and live up to our calling. Jesus spoke of true greatness in a different way…

 Mark 10:43-45 esv But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

 No doubt, we too have a message, the means, and the opportunity to use our gifts, treasure and talents to supernaturally impact this world for Jesus Christ – to raise His fame across the earth. It is in this way, you and I can experience true greatness in His Kingdom. Perhaps as we look back and applaud those who have served us well, may it inspire us all to look forward and commit to serving others well. Not only will it position us for greatness, it will bring honor and acclaim to our Lord Jesus Christ. What will be said of the life you live?

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The audience talks back…

I had a great opportunity on Saturday to talk to foster kids from seven agencies across the city. These kids were mostly high school and beyond, having been in the system for a while, they have a difficult time finding a family that will adopt them. Their young lives share a history that most kids never have to deal with. A very generous couple in the church along with their friends hosted the kids. For the past nine years, they have invited these kids to their home for a day of fun, games, a traditional Christmas dinner and to top it off, an incredible Christmas gift for every one of them. Though most of the kids are well adjusted and exceptionally bright normal and fun loving kids; it was also clear that some struggled with emotional and social challenges. This family asked me to speak to the kids for 15-20 minutes and so I did. As I began sharing the simple message of Christmas, it seemed as if a few wanted to be heard rather than to tune in and so, I struggled…  eventually I pushed through and led many in a prayer of salvation.

 Leaving that evening I had two different emotions – the excitement of thinking about those who tuned in and responded, but I also mulled over the frustration I felt as I thought about the ones who not only didn’t want to tune in, seemingly wanted to ruin it for others.  Today, it dawned upon me how unfair I was to expect kids – struggling with the baggage they carry, the pain inflicted by adults in their lives who should have protected them, to live up to my unfair expectations.

 I wonder if the disruptions were just results of wounds from their past or current situations, or simply fear of the futility of their future. More importantly, I wonder if we don’t sometimes treat God the same way. He is reaching out to communicate with us but the pains and wounds of our past have so grabbed our attention we don’t seem to know how to stop and listen in to what He wants to say to us today. I wonder if we are too busy arguing at our circumstances that we drown out His calling out to us to show us unconditional acceptance and peace; calling us to remind us that in Him we can have a hope and a future. I wonder. Funny that I was asked to teach them something… I left being taught by them and by God.

 My prayer… Father, I pray that somehow you will reverse the growing trend of kids left without a family, in our cities and our nation.  I pray that you will secure justice for the little ones among us and send wholeness to their lives, their families, and by that, strengthen us as a nation.

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Happy Thanksgiving

I am and will eternally be grateful to God. As I reflect on life today, I am increasingly amazed and humbled at God’s love and mercy. The older I get, the more I realize just how undeserving I am.

For many of us fortunate to have dinner with our families or friends today, I thought I will share what has become a bit of a tradition in our home. Before we eat, we take a moment to read Psalm 100. It’s a short but powerful psalm of thanksgiving. From our family to yours, have a beautiful thanksgiving and a life filled with more and more of God’s presence and His incredible goodness. Thanks for allowing me to share my blog with you. Much love,

David

Psalm 100 nlt
1  Shout with joy to the LORD, all the earth!
2  Worship the LORD with gladness.
    Come before him, singing with joy.
3  Acknowledge that the LORD is God!
    He made us, and we are his.
    We are his people, the sheep of his pasture.
4  Enter his gates with thanksgiving;
    go into his courts with praise.
    Give thanks to him and praise his name.
5  For the LORD is good.
    His unfailing love continues forever,
    and his faithfulness continues to each generation.

 

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Bodacious

 

Kerby Brown taking on the 40 foot wave

Kerby Brown taking on the 40 foot wave

This picture caught my attention recently. It is an Australian surfer, Kerby Brown, taking on a 40-foot wave and living to talk about it. What a gutsy combination of being bold and audacious.  Dictionary.com suggests that such a picture can only be described as bodacious.  It stands in contrast to my play-it-safe self.

You see, I tried surfing early in the summer and actually loved it.  I have brand new surfer shorts (never worn) and a surfboard that went from the store to the garage and has, since then, provided a bodacious experience for spiders. Now summer is way gone and I have totally missed out on a potential new career opportunity :-) .

I think Christianity – or more accurately, following Jesus was meant to be bodacious. That’s what it was like for the believers in the book of Acts. They loved dangerously, forgave recklessly, shared their stuff wastefully with those in need, and pursued God unashamedly. They had a faith that wasn’t confined by fear, and lived out what it meant to be changed through a relationship with Jesus Christ. These disciples were bold, audacious and lived Romans 12.

Romans 12:9-12 (MSG)
9Love from the center of who you are; don’t fake it. Run for dear life from evil; hold on for dear life to good. 10Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle.11Don’t burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame. Be alert servants of the Master,12cheerfully expectant. Don’t quit in hard times; pray all the harder.

I’m not talking about living dangerously just for the sake of it- that’s “stupidacious,” (word not found in dictionary.com). However, many who carry the label of Christians, find themselves confined to religious ghettos – garages of other play-it-safe, stored up fellow believers, who hide from interacting with those who really need to be touched by the good news of the Gospel. Jesus was drawn to those who needed Him the most and so should we.

Indeed, this comes with a price.  People may reject you and your efforts, but let that spur you on to keep trying. Wipeout is actually part of the experience. If when you think of reaching beyond your comfort zone and taking a risk for God you are hindered by thoughts of:

  • “I tried that already and it didn’t work…”
  • “That’ll never work for me…”
  • “I’m not good enough… strong enough… spiritual enough… smart enough…”
  • “Me? You’ve got to be kidding!”

If that’s your list of normal constraints, absolutely disregard that list and dare to be bodacious. By God’s grace, you can influence your world. You must!

 P.S. Next summer, I do intend to hit the surf again. Can’t wait to take on the 40-foot wave.  

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2 Corinthians 12:9 Each time he said, “My gracious favor is all you need. My power works best in your weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may work through me. NLT

It’s difficult to reconcile how Paul could use the words boast and weaknesses in the same sentence. We cover our weakness, try to repair it, not boast about it.  In all honesty, facing and dealing with our weakness can be a daily burden leaving us discouraged and depressed. What seems to be a molehill for others is a mountain in our lives.  Yet, God’s promise to us is that in spite of our weakness, and, as a matter of fact, during the times when we feel most helpless, we can turn to Him for help.  His power works at its best when our strength is at its least.

Charlotte Elliott struggled with this issue in her life.  She became bitter and angry about the circumstances in her life.  Charlotte was an invalid from her youth and deeply resented the circumstances of her handicap.  When she gave her life to God, she longed to be used by Him, yet she felt her health and physical condition prevented it. Alone one evening, she poured out her feelings to God and penned the words:

Just as I am, tho tossed about

With many a conflict, many a doubt

Fightings and fears within, without,

O Lamb of God, I come! I come!

 You may recognize this as the third stanza to a song that has been sung at many evangelistic meetings.  A song that epitomizes that we can all come to God the way we are.  This song has helped millions to make that step… that step towards the unconditional, outstretched arms of God.  Charlotte may not have seen the fruits of her work, yet God used her moment of seeming weakness and despair to change the lives of many. Indeed, in spite of Charlotte’s physical impairment, God used her pen to draw millions to Him.

 Don’t focus on your difficulties or weaknesses.  Focus on the God who is bigger than your difficulties. Turn to Him in your moments of weakness and invite Him to show Himself strong on your behalf.  Whether or not you feel strong is irrelevant.  Don’t wallow in it.  Immerse yourself in your God. Let Him be your strong tower. Let Him bring out the best in you.

Question: What weaknesses are consuming your attention? Drawing you to look at yourself instead of the bigness of your God?  Let God show himself strong in spite of your circumstances.  Talk to Him today. His gracious favor is all you need. 

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Sorry about the title and yes it is a trick question. I borrowed it from Stuart McAllister. Does your mother know that you are stupid? There is no good answer to this question.  If you say yes – you are acknowledging your stupidity. If you say no, you are acknowledging her ignorance of your stupidity. If you say I don’t know – you are saying you are too stupid to even know how your mother feels about you. 

Indeed, questions can have an embedded assumption or assertion. No wonder, very often Jesus would ask a question in return, when confronted with a question. He did it to force people to think, and to force them to open up within their own assumptions. He had a way of helping people come to grips with their motivation.

When asked in Matthew 19 “Teacher, what good deed must I do to have eternal life?” he responded, “Why ask me about what is good?”

When approached by some Pharisees about a woman caught in adultery they asked: “The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?” he responded with a statement – but really with a question of self-examination “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!”

Consider this classic example in 

Luke 20:20-22 nlt  Watching for their opportunity, the leaders sent secret agents pretending to be honest men. They tried to get Jesus to say something that could be reported to the Roman governor so he would arrest Jesus. 21 They said, “Teacher, we know that you speak and teach what is right and are not influenced by what others think. You sincerely teach the ways of God. 22 Now tell us – is it right to pay taxes to the Roman government or not?”

To understand what is happening here, we need to consider the context. The religious people asking the question believed they were God’s chosen people and enslaved by the Roman Government. Their belief was that if you pay taxes, you are financing oppression of God’s holy people. It is why Jesus just couldn’t say yes. If he did, due to their cultural assumptions, they would accuse him of compromising his holiness to save his own life. If he says no, they would then turn him over to the Roman government to be charged with tax evasion. Jesus chose to respond to the question with one of his own.

Luke 20:23-26 He saw through their trickery and said, 24 ”Show me a Roman coin. Whose picture and title are stamped on it?” “Caesar’s,” they replied. 25 “Well then,” he said, “give to Caesar what belongs to him. But everything that belongs to God must be given to God.” 26 So they failed to trap him in the presence of the people. Instead, they were amazed by his answer, and they were silenced.

He answers the question – give to Cesar what belongs to him and by that, he shows them that it doesn’t make you unholy. Holiness is about giving to God what is rightfully His. I have wondered, why they didn’t ask the next logical question. So, what belongs to God? He could have then led them into how a right understanding on how to worship God in a way that is true and holy. 

It is important that we check our motives before we launch the question. Here are some “questions” to prepare our hearts toward God.

Am I honestly seeking to know what is true? Have I “loaded” the question to shape the response I want to hear?

Lord, what wrong assumptions about you have I brought into this conversation?

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Gotta read this…

This is an excerpt from of the most gifted teachers and writers that I learn from. F.W. Boreham captures in his essay “The Sword of Solomon” why life is to be valued.

“There is a sense in which two and two are four, the plane of ledgers and cashbooks – on which these propositions are approximately sound. But if you rise from that plane to a loftier one, you will find at once that they are untenable … it is obviously untrue that half-a-baby and half-a-baby make a baby. Let the sword do its deadly work… The two halves of a baby make no baby at all. On this higher plane of human sentiment and experience, the laws of mathematics collapse completely.

When a man distributes his wealth among his children, he gives to each a part.  But when a woman distributes her love among her children, she gives it all to each … No man who has once fallen in love will ever be persuaded that one and one are only two. He looks at her, and feels that one plus one would be a million … No happy couple into the sweet shelter of whose home a little child has come will ever be convinced that two and one are only three. Life has been enriched a thousandfold by the addition of that one little life to theirs. And I am certain that no pair from whose clinging and protecting arms their treasure has been snatched will find comfort in the assurance that one from three leaves two. In the great crises of life one’s faith in figures breaks down hopelessly. “

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In a couple previous blogs titled, “What I Must Teach My Boys,” I started to develop the idea that I must teach my children how to ask the right questions. It’s time to continue this thought. So, in my next post, I will discuss why asking the right question is so very important. I trust it makes as much sense to you as it does to me.

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I Hold and Am Held

F.W. Boreham writes: I am the son of a college [Spurgeon’s] that has, for its crest a cross grasped by a hand. The motto beneath it reads: Et teneo et teneor—I hold and am held. The only things worth holding are the things that we cannot let go.

F.W. Boreham, Wisps of Wildfire (London; The Epworth Press, 1924), 248.

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Someone’s Watching

Watching our children rest peacefully, from the time they were babies and even as they grow older, still stirs a warmth deep in our hearts as parents. Their safety, peace, and silent rest (or for the snorers – not so silent) bring us contentment. Why? For one, I know what you’re thinking – finally quiet time we can rest.  Especially when your child reaches the terrible two’s or terrible one and half or terrible three’s or fours (just kidding); they rest, so we can rest. But honestly, I believe we were designed to experience this sense of delight when our kids enjoy rest or play because our Father designed us that way. We were fashioned in His incredible image and in those moments, we get to experience the joy of being a watchful, loving and caring parent. When it comes to our lives, we’re reminded in the Psalms,

Psalm 121:5 “The Lord himself watches over you! The Lord stands beside you as your protective shade.”

God himself keeps watch over His kids, not just when we sleep but all day long. If you think you’re out on your own living a nightmare, get a different perspective from the Word. Know that God stands over and beside you as a shade. You are not alone – you will never be.

Today, let’s take a moment to thank God that we are in His watchful care. With that settled, we are free to dream again.

PS. For your viewing pleasure, I have posted (without permission) a pic of Caleb – the latest addition to my nephew Paul’s family. Uncles have rights!

 

What a life

What a life

 

 

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