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Lives they lived

Reading through the New York Times Magazine’s tribute to those we lost in 2008, I found myself reflecting on some of the greats of our time and the significant deposits they left on the earth – people like Steve Fossett, Jim Mckay, Tim Russert and many others. One thing that stands out about them all is that they are remembered not for their abilities, connections, money, or fame, even though each of them excelled in every one of these arenas. They were all simply remembered for the impact they had on the lives of others. How they affected us together. The lives they lived receive acclaim today because they shared what they had, used their abilities to strengthen the inabilities of others, spent their money to improve areas where others had lack, and used their connections and fame to bring transformation to their world.  I applaud them all!

 As I think about this year, it does make me think – what will be said of us? Truth is, we too have the same opportunity to impact our world and arguably in a way that may indeed matter even more. You and I can live lives that can also have a profound impact on others, both practically and even on a greater plain, spiritually. It takes place as we discover our purpose in God and live up to our calling. Jesus spoke of true greatness in a different way…

 Mark 10:43-45 esv But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

 No doubt, we too have a message, the means, and the opportunity to use our gifts, treasure and talents to supernaturally impact this world for Jesus Christ – to raise His fame across the earth. It is in this way, you and I can experience true greatness in His Kingdom. Perhaps as we look back and applaud those who have served us well, may it inspire us all to look forward and commit to serving others well. Not only will it position us for greatness, it will bring honor and acclaim to our Lord Jesus Christ. What will be said of the life you live?

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Happy New Year

Each New Year presents us with a chance for reflection: To look back on where we’ve been and look forward to where we want to go. No matter what our current situation, the New Year represents hope and possibilities. My greatest desire for the coming year is that my life comes into closer alignment with God and what He desires in and through me. Today, I am reminded of my life verse (Micah 6:8) and as a start, I hope it can increasingly become a reality within me.

Micah 6:8 He has shown you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.

 My prayer is that in 2009, God will present us with amazing opportunities and we will be excellent stewards of them all. Have a wonderfully blessed New Year!

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Happy Thanksgiving

I am and will eternally be grateful to God. As I reflect on life today, I am increasingly amazed and humbled at God’s love and mercy. The older I get, the more I realize just how undeserving I am.

For many of us fortunate to have dinner with our families or friends today, I thought I will share what has become a bit of a tradition in our home. Before we eat, we take a moment to read Psalm 100. It’s a short but powerful psalm of thanksgiving. From our family to yours, have a beautiful thanksgiving and a life filled with more and more of God’s presence and His incredible goodness. Thanks for allowing me to share my blog with you. Much love,

David

Psalm 100 nlt
1  Shout with joy to the LORD, all the earth!
2  Worship the LORD with gladness.
    Come before him, singing with joy.
3  Acknowledge that the LORD is God!
    He made us, and we are his.
    We are his people, the sheep of his pasture.
4  Enter his gates with thanksgiving;
    go into his courts with praise.
    Give thanks to him and praise his name.
5  For the LORD is good.
    His unfailing love continues forever,
    and his faithfulness continues to each generation.

 

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Bodacious

 

Kerby Brown taking on the 40 foot wave

Kerby Brown taking on the 40 foot wave

This picture caught my attention recently. It is an Australian surfer, Kerby Brown, taking on a 40-foot wave and living to talk about it. What a gutsy combination of being bold and audacious.  Dictionary.com suggests that such a picture can only be described as bodacious.  It stands in contrast to my play-it-safe self.

You see, I tried surfing early in the summer and actually loved it.  I have brand new surfer shorts (never worn) and a surfboard that went from the store to the garage and has, since then, provided a bodacious experience for spiders. Now summer is way gone and I have totally missed out on a potential new career opportunity :-) .

I think Christianity – or more accurately, following Jesus was meant to be bodacious. That’s what it was like for the believers in the book of Acts. They loved dangerously, forgave recklessly, shared their stuff wastefully with those in need, and pursued God unashamedly. They had a faith that wasn’t confined by fear, and lived out what it meant to be changed through a relationship with Jesus Christ. These disciples were bold, audacious and lived Romans 12.

Romans 12:9-12 (MSG)
9Love from the center of who you are; don’t fake it. Run for dear life from evil; hold on for dear life to good. 10Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle.11Don’t burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame. Be alert servants of the Master,12cheerfully expectant. Don’t quit in hard times; pray all the harder.

I’m not talking about living dangerously just for the sake of it- that’s “stupidacious,” (word not found in dictionary.com). However, many who carry the label of Christians, find themselves confined to religious ghettos – garages of other play-it-safe, stored up fellow believers, who hide from interacting with those who really need to be touched by the good news of the Gospel. Jesus was drawn to those who needed Him the most and so should we.

Indeed, this comes with a price.  People may reject you and your efforts, but let that spur you on to keep trying. Wipeout is actually part of the experience. If when you think of reaching beyond your comfort zone and taking a risk for God you are hindered by thoughts of:

  • “I tried that already and it didn’t work…”
  • “That’ll never work for me…”
  • “I’m not good enough… strong enough… spiritual enough… smart enough…”
  • “Me? You’ve got to be kidding!”

If that’s your list of normal constraints, absolutely disregard that list and dare to be bodacious. By God’s grace, you can influence your world. You must!

 P.S. Next summer, I do intend to hit the surf again. Can’t wait to take on the 40-foot wave.  

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2 Corinthians 12:9 Each time he said, “My gracious favor is all you need. My power works best in your weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may work through me. NLT

It’s difficult to reconcile how Paul could use the words boast and weaknesses in the same sentence. We cover our weakness, try to repair it, not boast about it.  In all honesty, facing and dealing with our weakness can be a daily burden leaving us discouraged and depressed. What seems to be a molehill for others is a mountain in our lives.  Yet, God’s promise to us is that in spite of our weakness, and, as a matter of fact, during the times when we feel most helpless, we can turn to Him for help.  His power works at its best when our strength is at its least.

Charlotte Elliott struggled with this issue in her life.  She became bitter and angry about the circumstances in her life.  Charlotte was an invalid from her youth and deeply resented the circumstances of her handicap.  When she gave her life to God, she longed to be used by Him, yet she felt her health and physical condition prevented it. Alone one evening, she poured out her feelings to God and penned the words:

Just as I am, tho tossed about

With many a conflict, many a doubt

Fightings and fears within, without,

O Lamb of God, I come! I come!

 You may recognize this as the third stanza to a song that has been sung at many evangelistic meetings.  A song that epitomizes that we can all come to God the way we are.  This song has helped millions to make that step… that step towards the unconditional, outstretched arms of God.  Charlotte may not have seen the fruits of her work, yet God used her moment of seeming weakness and despair to change the lives of many. Indeed, in spite of Charlotte’s physical impairment, God used her pen to draw millions to Him.

 Don’t focus on your difficulties or weaknesses.  Focus on the God who is bigger than your difficulties. Turn to Him in your moments of weakness and invite Him to show Himself strong on your behalf.  Whether or not you feel strong is irrelevant.  Don’t wallow in it.  Immerse yourself in your God. Let Him be your strong tower. Let Him bring out the best in you.

Question: What weaknesses are consuming your attention? Drawing you to look at yourself instead of the bigness of your God?  Let God show himself strong in spite of your circumstances.  Talk to Him today. His gracious favor is all you need. 

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Sorry about the title and yes it is a trick question. I borrowed it from Stuart McAllister. Does your mother know that you are stupid? There is no good answer to this question.  If you say yes – you are acknowledging your stupidity. If you say no, you are acknowledging her ignorance of your stupidity. If you say I don’t know – you are saying you are too stupid to even know how your mother feels about you. 

Indeed, questions can have an embedded assumption or assertion. No wonder, very often Jesus would ask a question in return, when confronted with a question. He did it to force people to think, and to force them to open up within their own assumptions. He had a way of helping people come to grips with their motivation.

When asked in Matthew 19 “Teacher, what good deed must I do to have eternal life?” he responded, “Why ask me about what is good?”

When approached by some Pharisees about a woman caught in adultery they asked: “The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?” he responded with a statement – but really with a question of self-examination “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!”

Consider this classic example in 

Luke 20:20-22 nlt  Watching for their opportunity, the leaders sent secret agents pretending to be honest men. They tried to get Jesus to say something that could be reported to the Roman governor so he would arrest Jesus. 21 They said, “Teacher, we know that you speak and teach what is right and are not influenced by what others think. You sincerely teach the ways of God. 22 Now tell us – is it right to pay taxes to the Roman government or not?”

To understand what is happening here, we need to consider the context. The religious people asking the question believed they were God’s chosen people and enslaved by the Roman Government. Their belief was that if you pay taxes, you are financing oppression of God’s holy people. It is why Jesus just couldn’t say yes. If he did, due to their cultural assumptions, they would accuse him of compromising his holiness to save his own life. If he says no, they would then turn him over to the Roman government to be charged with tax evasion. Jesus chose to respond to the question with one of his own.

Luke 20:23-26 He saw through their trickery and said, 24 ”Show me a Roman coin. Whose picture and title are stamped on it?” “Caesar’s,” they replied. 25 “Well then,” he said, “give to Caesar what belongs to him. But everything that belongs to God must be given to God.” 26 So they failed to trap him in the presence of the people. Instead, they were amazed by his answer, and they were silenced.

He answers the question – give to Cesar what belongs to him and by that, he shows them that it doesn’t make you unholy. Holiness is about giving to God what is rightfully His. I have wondered, why they didn’t ask the next logical question. So, what belongs to God? He could have then led them into how a right understanding on how to worship God in a way that is true and holy. 

It is important that we check our motives before we launch the question. Here are some “questions” to prepare our hearts toward God.

Am I honestly seeking to know what is true? Have I “loaded” the question to shape the response I want to hear?

Lord, what wrong assumptions about you have I brought into this conversation?

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Gotta read this…

This is an excerpt from of the most gifted teachers and writers that I learn from. F.W. Boreham captures in his essay “The Sword of Solomon” why life is to be valued.

“There is a sense in which two and two are four, the plane of ledgers and cashbooks – on which these propositions are approximately sound. But if you rise from that plane to a loftier one, you will find at once that they are untenable … it is obviously untrue that half-a-baby and half-a-baby make a baby. Let the sword do its deadly work… The two halves of a baby make no baby at all. On this higher plane of human sentiment and experience, the laws of mathematics collapse completely.

When a man distributes his wealth among his children, he gives to each a part.  But when a woman distributes her love among her children, she gives it all to each … No man who has once fallen in love will ever be persuaded that one and one are only two. He looks at her, and feels that one plus one would be a million … No happy couple into the sweet shelter of whose home a little child has come will ever be convinced that two and one are only three. Life has been enriched a thousandfold by the addition of that one little life to theirs. And I am certain that no pair from whose clinging and protecting arms their treasure has been snatched will find comfort in the assurance that one from three leaves two. In the great crises of life one’s faith in figures breaks down hopelessly. “

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Yesterday morning on the way to school I had an opportunity to talk to Joshua regarding why it’s important to know how to ask the right questions.  Here is how the conversation went.

Question #1: “Josh, when you ask, ‘do you have your iTouch?’ What are you really asking?”

Response #1: “If I could play with it.”

Question #2: “And when you ask, ‘Are you tired?’ What are you really wanting to know?”

Response #2: “Can you come out and play with me?“

Question #3: “Ok, now the last one – when you ask, ‘do you have any money?’ What are you really asking?”

Response #3: “Can you buy me something?”

This time, the light bulb is turning on and he sheepishly smiles. You see had he asked the right questions, I would immediately know what it was he really cared about. Regarding the iTouch, what he really wants me to know is that he is bored and is looking for something to address that need. When he inquiries about whether I am tired or not – what he doesn’t know is that many times I have played with him, even though I was tired, because I knew it was important to him.  However, to be fair, knowing Joshua as I do, it would be just like him to think about how I was feeling even though he is dying to “school” me in basketball. Or perhaps a different question – “Dad, I really wish I could have that” might yield – how about next week when I get paid, or maybe I have the money and it’s not something I would choose to spend it on.

Why then do we not say what we mean or ask for what we want? Perhaps it’s our need for self-preservation and protection. We don’t want to be rejected so we take as our starting point, the last response we thought we got to our inquiry.

Our assumptions about the person may be entirely wrong. Where this is especially important, is when it starts creeping into the questions we ask of ourselves, and the questions we ask of God. Our questions provide insight into the assumptions we make. As a goal, we should grow in being authentic and honest with ourselves and especially towards God. It’s the foundation for an honest seeking of His grace and truth in our lives.

Indeed – questions are important. Thinking about our questions can be a stepping- stone into growing in integrity within, and enjoying authenticity with God.  In a future blog, we will look at how Jesus used questions to get to the heart of the matter. 

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Generosity

One of my favorite stories in the Bible is one about a woman with a beautiful alabaster jar of expensive perfume. Matthew 26:6-13 tells us that when she poured it over Jesus’ head, his disciples were indignant when they saw it and called it a “waste.” The truth is, Jesus commended the woman and said that her deed will be remembered and discussed. This woman teaches us the virtue of “wasting” our life on Jesus Christ. The virtue we know as generosity. Generosity is more about our hearts than our money. It’s freely giving away what God has deposited in our lives for the benefit of others and His kingdom.

What is generosity? Generosity is:

1. Finding pleasure in enriching the lives of others. Why would you give your most treasured possession away? When the value of giving outweighs the value of the gift.

Romans 12:1 (ncv) “So brothers and sisters, since God has shown us great mercy, I beg you to offer your lives as a living sacrifice to him. Your offering must be only for God and pleasing to him, which is the spiritual way for you to worship.”

2. Organizing our lives so God can spend us. As parents we get this principle, we often find ourselves re-prioritizing and organizing our lives for the betterment of our families. In the same manner, we have no greater purpose than when we discover that we are God’s resource for influencing and transforming the lives of those around us.

Proverbs 29:18 (The Message) “If people can’t see what God is doing, they stumble all over themselves; But when they attend to what He reveals, they are most blessed.”

3. Ultimately giving to God and to others, as an act of love towards God. The Bible reminds us that whatever we do we should do to His honor. It is our most reasonable sacrifice.

John 15:1 (nlt) “There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friend.”

Notice – when we spend the best of ourselves on Him, it will always be remembered and rewarded. What has God placed in your hand, or in your heart? If you are fortunate to have “flow,” “cash,” or “bling” – then be a blessing to others. Perhaps you can offer an encouraging word or act in a kind way, then let God use you in someone else’s life. We can’t be generous with closed fists or closed hearts. Let’s freely give, be generous with love, and forever waste all that we are upon Him.

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What’s Cool Anyway?

Over the years, I have collected so many T-Shirts personally designed by my boys. I usually don’t wear them except in the confines of the house but I guess to show my appreciation, I decided to wear the last one made as I relaxed on my day off. This shirt was done probably a year ago – it simply says: “This Daddy is an All-Star.” One of the more “sophisticated” ones, as it was a press-on.

At dinner tonight, the conversation shifted to coolness. Jonathan had previously told me: “Daddy, I love you, even though you’re not cool” but I guess I just thought he heard that from some devilish television show and didn’t really understand what it meant. Well, he decided to relieve me of my self-deception. He said – daddy, you are just not cool. Look at your shirt! Connie busted out laughing instead of coming to my defense.

Well I got something to say. Its true, I should not be wearing these hand-made shirts outside the house. But the fact that my generation and this generation both understand the word “cool,” means we have one thing in common. We both use a word that still has value and relevance. The word “cool” has outlasted all the new slang words.

“Hip, groovy, crazy, nervous, far-out, rad, and tubular have for the most part not had the staying power or continued universal appeal of cool.” Dictionary.com.

The jury is still out on how long newer expressions of approval such as def and phat will survive. Ed Young said, “we used to be cool, until our kids made us un-cool.” We never really lost anything (or at least that’s what I took away from his statement.) So, in some sense we will always be cool in our own eyes. I just need to focus on what will forever remain cool. I’ve compiled a short list:

· Having dinner together as a family and enjoying our best laughs there.

· Knowing my seven year old could poke fun at his dad and know its “all-good”

· Praying together as a family at night and appreciating how good God is to us.

· Enjoying the fact that they are enjoying all the cartoons we did in our time – except they are now full-length, high-tech movies like Batman, Hulk, Iron Man, etc.

· Hearing “I love you” from my way-cool middle-schooler, Josh, as I drop him off to school each day.

· Appreciating that they still want to introduce us to their friends.

I may not dress cool, dance cool, or talk cool anymore, but I can still help with homework, work hard and provide for their cool choices, and treat their mom right as somehow she never seems to lose her cool points.

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