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Time to make some changes

I read a quote by Gordon MacDonald that has been messing with me in a very good way. From his book, Ordering Your Private World, he writes…

A driven person is usually caught in the uncontrolled pursuit of expansion. Driven people like to be a part of something that is getting bigger and more successful.… They rarely have any time to appreciate the achievements to date.… Driven people are usually abnormally busy. They are usually too busy for the pursuit of ordinary relationships in marriage, family, or friendship … not to speak of one with God.

As a driven person, it is easy to fall into the trap of pursuing the good over the best. Where do you begin to get things back on track? You, like me, can start by asking yourself some tough questions and responding to them honestly.

Questions such as:

  • Have I stopped to appreciate all that God has done?
  • Am I just way too busy?
  • Would my wife and my kids feel I pursue and prioritize them more than my career or ministry?
  • Am I making more progress in my relationship with God than in my work for Him?

I know if you saw my answers you will be as unimpressed as I am. However, there is never a better time than the present to make adjustments. Thank God for His grace and leading – I am making some changes.

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Sophia and Isaac’s Dedication

I had the awesome privilege of dedicating my niece’s daughter Sophia, and nephew’s son Isaac in Houston, Texas this past Saturday. Sophia is 5 months and Isaac is 2 going on 12 :-) with his pin-stripe suit.

We as believers in Jesus Christ, have a tremendous responsibility given to us when the Lord blesses us with a child. He entrusts us with the responsibility to raise up our children in the knowledge of God. In Mark 10 we read of an encounter Jesus had with children.

Mark 10:13-16 HCSB Some people were bringing little children to Him so He might touch them, but His disciples rebuked them. 14 When Jesus saw it, He was indignant and said to them, “Let the little children come to Me.  Don’t stop them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. 15 I assure you:  Whoever does not welcome   the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” 16 After taking them in His arms, He laid His hands on them and blessed them.

Even to the casual observer, it’s obvious the gospel writers placed particular importance on Jesus’ attitude toward children. When everyone wanted to keep the children from Jesus, he invited them in and had some rather harsh words for those who hindered them. But do we also observe that not only did he delight in them, they seemed to delight in him. As parents we must make room for that. I believe the greatest thing we can deposit in the life of our kids is an endearing view of God.  Affirm how very precious, life changing and beautiful it is to walk through life with a personal knowledge of Jesus Christ. It is the best way to establish the right foundation, one built upon Jesus Christ.

For me, it was quite an honor to share this special time with them. I know that both Sophia and Isaac are going to grow up and do great things for God.

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A Dying Father’s Lessons on Life for His Teenaged Daughter

The following is an excerpt from an article I read in the Harvard Business Review published Tuesday, May 25th 2010, about a man named John Tarbell who recently lost his battle with cancer. He was working on his most important project: a comprehensive guide to how to live a good life. It was something he spent years working on for an audience of one: his only child, a daughter, now 15. It comprised lessons drawn from his life, and from his mentors, and covered everything from friends and partying to finances and careers. John’s lessons remind one that having a few simple guidelines can help yield a life of worthwhile accomplishments. I can only hope that my life lessons – a document of successes and failings, wins and loses, steps and missteps – will help spare my boys unnecessary pain, and prepare them to have a more enriching future.

Here are 8 career lessons from John Tarbell:

1. Seek out a mentor — possibly someone who was involved in your hiring process. Learn what to expect two or three years ahead and prepare for it.

2. Assume the behavior and habits of the people at the next level, and you will demonstrate that you can get there.

3. Whatever you do, be sure your involvement and actions’ ethics and results will look honorable and wise if they appear in the right hand column of the Wall Street Journal’s front page. They just might.

4. ”Try to find out what you’re good at, and have a passion for, and get someone to pay you for doing it” — advice I was given early on, and it has always proved to be the path for success and, just as importantly, happiness.

5. The first job is rarely anything but a start. Do the best you can, try to work with people you like and admire, and hope for the best. In your lifetime, you may change jobs, if not your career path, many times.

6. Avoid bosses who promise promotions and advancement but who take credit for your work. They won’t fulfill their promises to you.

7. Save for a rainy day and always be able to support yourself. You can lose everything in a flash, and scenarios of financial adversity do present themselves in life, even to the best prepared.

8. Avoid speculative ventures. If making money were easy, everyone would be wealthy. If someone can’t answer all your questions and ”what ifs,” there’s something wrong.

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Why I Love Hillsong United

These modern day hymn writers have found their way into my heart and I’ve become a fan. Like the hymns of old that engaged the mind and captured the heart, they have chosen to keep the message strong while pursuing great musicality. I’m no expert, but as far as their tempo, it feels like they have abandoned predictability in cadence and chosen a different direction.  I call it metronome interrupted. So very well executed in the song “Oh You Bring” from the album “Across the Earth: Tear Down The Walls.”

Their sound is a global one – current, expressive, liberating and refreshing music that heralds the anthem of the local church. Yet, as it should be, very much Christ-centered. Hillsong’s  musical expression balances depth with rhythmic ease. The Psalmist David, a fellow hymn writer, would have been proud (at least in my opinion). They stand among the great worship leaders of the church today.

So, I just wanted to give honor to whom honor is due and thank God for the gift of Hillsong United.

Get a taste at - Hillsong United

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The God who helps…

My son Jonathan, does virtual school and often times is presented with timed tests. His best time thus far has been 1 minute 0 seconds. This afternoon my wife eavesdropped on him and heard him praying. “God – I know that you helped me to get one minute and 0 seconds, but I’m asking you to help me get less than one minute. I know that you can do it for me. I thank you in Jesus Name, Amen.” Well he tried and got done in 1 minute and 17 seconds. Connie encouraged him to relax and not be so anxious. So, he decided to try it again. This time he got his answers correct in 57 seconds. He exclaimed, “Aw man, I thought asking God will be cheating, but I’m glad he helped me.” I thought that was so very funny…

It got me to thinking about what I was struggling with lately? I guess it’s ok to “cheat” and ask God to weigh in on the matter. He might just help me too!

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The Good, Insane Concordance Maker

I usually do not share articles I come across on my blog.  However this one, thanks to John Piper, was too good to keep to myself. Enjoy!

There’s a catch to this story that comes later. I hope you read to the end. I think you’ll be encouraged. I was. I read in a recent issue of Books and Culture a review (by Timothy Larsen) of a new biography of Alexander Cruden, the man who single-handedly wrote one of the early concordances to the King James Bible (Alexander the Corrector: The Tormented Genius Who Unwrote the Bible by Julia Keay). That means he recorded every one of the 777,746 words in the Bible and made a note of every place where it occurs. For example, the word “him” (6,667 occurrences), “her” (1,994 occurrences), “God” (4,444 occurrences), etc.

In the mid-1720s, Alexander Cruden took on a self-imposed task of Herculean proportions, Himalayan tedium, and inhuman meticulousness: he decided to compile the most thorough concordance of the King James Version of the Bible to date. The first edition of Cruden’s Concordance was published in 1737. How could he have possibly completed such a project? Every similar undertaking before or since has been the work of a vast team of people—in recent times made incomparably easier by computers. Cruden worked alone in his lodgings, writing the whole thing out by hand. The KJV has 777,746 words, all of which needed to be put in their proper place. Cruden even wrote explanatory entries on many of the words—in effect, including a Bible dictionary as a bonus. The word “Synagogue,” for example, prompted a 4,000-word essay.

Furthermore, Cruden’s day job was as a “Corrector of the Press” (proofreader). He would give hawk-eyed attention to prose all day long. Then he would come home at night, not to rest his eyes and enjoy some relaxation, but rather to read the Bible—stopping at every single word to secure the right sheet from the tens of thousands of pieces of paper all around him and to record accurately the reference in its appropriate place. He had no patron, no publisher, no financial backers: his only commission was a divine one.

Cruden’s Concordance has never been out of print. Some hundred editions have been published, many of which have been reprinted untold times; shoppers at a popular online bookstore today can choose from 18 different in-print versions of Cruden’s.

For this, thousands of lovers of the Bible thank God. They have studied the Bible seriously for almost three hundred years with Cruden’s help. If this is all we knew, we would simply be amazed at his industry and give thanks. But here’s the catch. He was, if not insane, utterly maladjusted.

Cruden was institutionalized for madness four times in his life. His behavior was often bizarre.

On another occasion, Cruden had apparently gone to break up a brawl but ended up spending the best part of an hour admonishing disorderly soldiers not to swear while periodically whacking them on the head with a shovel. He also would propose to women with whom he had established no romantic bond (one such intended he had not even met). Being unable to take no for an answer, he would then turn himself into a persistent nuisance, if not a stalker.

Eventually he decided that God’s call on his life was to reform the morals of Britain. “He therefore started a one-man campaign to have the King name him to a position hitherto unknown in British government, ‘Corrector of the People.’ He then went rambling about the country admonishing strangers to observe the Sabbath.”

He simply could not discern what was fitting and probable. This meant he did foolish things. But not all foolish things are bad. “He did not know—as all normal people do—that when a man gets propositioned he can feel sad for the plight of the prostitute, but there is really nothing he can do to help. Cruden instead hired her to do legitimate work, and she lived a respectable and grateful life thereafter.”

On another occasion “Cruden did not know that a prisoner’s case was never reconsidered when he was only a few days away from execution. He went at this campaign in his usual obsessive and forthright way and pulled off a political miracle—the man’s sentence was reduced to deportation.”

What encourages me about this is to realize that God’s ways are strange. “How unsearchable are his judgments and how inscrutable his ways!” (Romans 11:33). And in this strangeness, sinful and sick and broken people fit into God’s designs. He has purposes for the mentally ill and for the emotionally unstable and for the socially maladjusted. And he has purposes for you.

As Timothy Larsen observes, Cruden did not have the sense to know that “one man working alone in his bedroom could not produce a complete concordance of the Bible.” And from this folly millions have been blessed. Beware of belittling God’s crooked sticks. With them he may write the message that that makes a thousand people glad.

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Keep on dancing…

Keep on dancing…

So, I got up this morning and for the pure entertainment of seeing my kids squirm, I decided to practice my dancing moves.  The responses were interesting today.

Jon said, “Dad – please, the last time you tried popping and locking you popped and locked your back. ”  Of course, the only one I can turn to for a supportive comment was Connie who said, “Your dance steps were the main reason I married you,” but I did detect a bit of sarcasm in her voice. In my humble evaluation, I thought the dance moves were pretty good given the difficult audience.

Truth is, in life there comes a time when it seems we just stop dancing. What is dancing? It is simply an outward expression of an inward experience. Not just talking about the fox-trot or samba, I’m talking about the way we live. God wants us to live out loud what He is doing within us. It’s the life He has invited us to enjoy.

What has caused you to stop dancing? Not literally, but in a figurative sense. Have you stopped taking the time to have fun, regardless of whose watching, and just enjoy the moment? Caught up in the business of work, careers, raising kids, it’s easy to forget that God has given us this urge to move and laugh. God wants us to experience joy in our moments because He is always in the moment.

You will never wake up and find God in a bad mood. Life in Him is always a dance. Freeing, exhilarating, and carefree; not always so very cautious and careful. So maybe today hasn’t started off the way you planned it. Rewind the tape, bring God into the picture, and dance just as if no one was watching.

dance as though no one is watching you,

love as though you have never been hurt before,

sing as though no one can hear you,

live as though heaven is on earth.  –unknown

Ecclesiastes 3:4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; King James

P.S. Look for me on the next season of Dancing with the Stars… unless of course, they are intimidated by my moves!

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Tetelestai

Ever so often, an author comes along and redefines a word or a thought I have had all my life. His/her writing doesn’t quite contradict what I’ve understood in the past, but sheds new light on it in a profound way – bringing new meaning and insight to what I’ve been taught. F. W. Boreham was just such a writer and today remains one of my very favorites. On this beautiful Easter morning, I wanted to share with you one his very best short stories, titled Tetelestai!

It was a farmer’s word. When, into his herd, there was born an animal so beautiful and shapely that it seemed absolutely destitute of faults and defects, the farmer gazed upon the creature with proud, delighted eyes. “Tetelestai!” he said, “Tetelestai!”

It was an artist’s word. When the painter or the sculptor had put the last finishing touches to the vivid landscape or the marble bust, he would stand back a few feet to admire his masterpiece, and seeing in it nothing that call for correction or improvement, would murmur fondly, “Tetelestai!” “Tetelestai!”

It was a priestly word. When some devout worshipper, overflowing with gratitude for mercies shown him, brought to the temple a lamb without spot or blemish, the pride of the whole flock, the priest, more accustomed to seeing the blind and defective animals led to the altar, would look admiringly upon the pretty creature. “Tetelestai!” he would say, “Tetelestai!”

And when, in the fullness of time, the Lamb of God offered Himself on the altar of the ages, He rejoiced with a joy so triumphant that it bore down all His anguish before it. The sacrifice was stainless, perfect, finished! “He cried with a loud voice Tetelestai! and gave up the ghost.”

This divine self-satisfaction appears only twice, once in each Testament. When He completed the work of Creation, He looked upon it and said that it was very good, when He completed the Work of Redemption He cried with a loud voice “Tetelestai!” It means exactly the same thing.

F.W. Boreham, A Handful of Stars (London: The Epworth Press, 1922), 102-013.

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Your Attention Please

I want to bring your attention to this thing called “Attention.” In a recent Time Magazine article, James Poniewozik pointed out how people have unfortunately become victims of the attention they garner – referring to the recent White House crashers. Poniewozik writes that “attention is ultimately like gravity: a force that you cannot command to cease. Fight it, and it will plow you under. Ride it, like a downhill skier and you may still crash. But you’ll make a very photogenic wreck” one that is splashed across the media.

So how did Jesus handle attention? This is one of the aspects of his ministry that I find very intriguing. He never appeared to draw on any kind of personal benefit from the attention his ministry attracted. How often did he heal people and ask them to not say anything about it? More directly, Jesus wasn’t hesitant in addressing those who seemed to relish in the attention of others. In Matthew 23:5-7 (niv), Jesus corrects the Pharisees by pointing out…

Everything they do is done for men to see…”

“they love the place of honor at banquets and the most important seats…”

“they love to be greeted in the marketplaces and to have men call them ‘Rabbi.”

Let’s face it – it’s clear their motive was the approval of men and not the approval of God. On the contrary, Jesus said to his Father in John 17:4 “I brought glory to you here on earth by completing the work you gave me to do.” nlt

I find it ironic that the one person who had the right to our attention never pointed people to himself. The Bible tells us that before Jesus came on the scene – John the Baptist pointed others to him (Matthew 3:11), and after he ascended to the Father – the Holy Spirit did and does today (John 16:14).  He never sought attention himself. Jesus set an example for us to follow, that we too should work and live simply for the glory of God. I love that this is the theme for our 21 days of prayer and fasting – that God will be glorified in increasing ways in and through our lives. It is my prayer – may it be yours also.

David

P.S. For more information on fasting visit www.awake21.org

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A Hero’s Welcome

Today was a sad day but one that would stay in my memory forever. We were invited by the Taylor family to stand with them as they received the body of their 22-year old son who died in combat in Afghanistan. Life at the naval base stopped as everyone participated in the processional to pay tribute to this fallen soldier. From the flight line to the funeral home, all traffic came to a stop to give this young marine a true hero’s welcome. What a fitting honor!

We are privileged to live in one of just a few countries that can boast of a voluntary military. In America, men and women chose on their own free will to defend the freedoms we all enjoy through enlisting and serving in the military, and some like Jonathan pay the ultimate price. He gave his life in service to his country and for our freedom. Please remember to pray for those who serve in our military around the world as we enjoy the freedom their sacrifice and commitment provides.

Today, I want to honor Jonathan Taylor for his courage, bravery and selfless-sacrifice. As I think about the lyrics to our national anthem, I am reminded that in order for it to be the “land of the free,” it must first be recognized as the “home of the brave.” Welcome home, Jonathan – you are our American Hero!

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